Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Keeping Facebook Tabs with Ex Is a Double-Edged Sword

60-Second Tech

Checking out a new old flame on Facebook may make it easier to cope in some ways, but harder in others. Larry Greenemeier reports

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Thinking about using Facebook to check up on that former someone special? Think again. Keeping tabs on an old flame after a breakup generally makes it harder to move on in the real world, and social-network cyber spying is no different. So says a study in the journal Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking. [Tara C. Marshall, Facebook Surveillance of Former Romantic Partners: Associations with PostBreakup Recovery and Personal Growth]

Researchers found that doing covert surveillance on an ex and regularly checking their status updates, wall posts, comments and photos hinders the post-breakup healing process. That's because Facebook can tell you things about an ex that you normally might not be able to find out, such as the identity of a new partner and what those two have been up to.

However, people remaining overt Facebook friends with an ex generally felt less distress, were less likely to want to continue sexual relations with the ex and were less likely to have negative feelings for that person. The researchers conclude, ?Former partners with whom we are no longer in contact, by contrast, may remain shrouded in an alluring mystique.? This suggests remaining Facebook friends with an ex may actually help one's postbreakup attitude even if they can't let go completely.

?Larry Greenemeier

[The above text is a transcript of this podcast.]

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